Obsession!

Okay, so I have a serious obsession with planning this whole shin dig, we're trying to work on a budget right now and its proving to be difficult. I am the first to get married, so no one really knows what to expect, how much is too much or what a good deal is. It says the average Utah wedding is $4,000, however that is not including the venue becuase most vet married in the temple and have the reception in the church, which is great for some people, but not for me. I don't really wanna get married under a basketball hoop. The average wedding outside of Utah is $14,000 and I sure as hell don't want to spend that much. No thank you. My ideal would be to keep everything under $5,000, and I still think that is a lot. I should be able to though, because the venue that I want is only $2,000 and EVERYTHING is included, except for food so I'll have to deal with that as we get closer because I have no idea what I want to do when it comes to that. I know we have awhile and I'm kinda jumping the gun but I am just really excited, but I really am happy that I have a long time to plan and get things organized.

Also I think I found a cake design I like! Now, for those of you that know me I don't really like cake, so I was just looking around to see some ideas for a small one that we could still cut and do all that stuff, but that I wouldn't have to eat and wouldn't be too expensive. I just don't wanna pay $300.00 for something that is totally gross. So I was browsing facebook and found "Utah Wedding Cakes" and they had some pretty nice cakes I won't lie, but I dont like fondant, really its gross but looks awesome. Buttercream is where its at, well this website boasts that Dawna's buttercream is so smooth that it looks almost exactly like fondant. The website is http://www.utahcakes.com/ for those of you that would like to look at some that she has up. As I was scrolling thru I found this little baby!

 Isn't it perfect?! Its ZEBRA! What?! Awesome. Yes. So I obviously wouldn't have green, I would change that to purple, and have the dots be champagne and gray, and maybe have the stripes be purple instead of black but I'm not sure. So you believe me when I tell you, I will be calling Dawna shortly and trying to work this all out. Plus her prices appear fantastic. I was honestly kind of dreading the cake thing but now I'm all excited. I have also semi thought about doing something like this for the little kids, cuz its just awesome. Really who doesn't love a Cupcake Tree? I mean really? Its cupcakes, yummy!

So I found these cute shoes that I love, I've had shoes like them since I was 7 and they are just awesome, and totally cumfy. I've had about every color since I discovered them, and can't get enough of them. Plus they are so CUTE! Purple and Gray Converses? I mean how awesome? My mom and Jill really don't like them though, they think that I should be in heels, but I'm going to have to stand all flippin day, plus no one will even notice cuz I'm gonna be wearing a dress that drags on the floor so no biggie. They are just so dang cute!

I'm trying to get organized as much as I can without making things final because is so far away a lot could change by then and I don't want to be dissapointed if something doesn't work. I'm trying to be healthy a lot lately because I want to feel awesome on my wedding day. To be healthy looking and have toned arms is my goal for that day, and to have perfect skin. I want to look tan and have no acne or have an awesome photographer who can make that happen haha. I'm pathetic and vain I know but this is what I want, I just want to be comfortable in my own skin. To me its really important. I'm working really hard to make sure that is a reality and then stick with it even after. I just want to start our lives together as a healthy and happy couple.

Deets.

Okay, so we have a date, but I haven't booked the place completely yet so I can't tell everyone in case it changes. But the important thing is WE HAVE A DATE! Last night I was with Roy til midnight (yes late I know, I'm feeling it today) and we were discussing wedding ideas and looking at other people's pictures and saying what we liked and didn't like and it was so fun! We picked a lot of things that I just love, like flowers, bridesmaid dresses, my dress and looked at sample photography so I could feel like I was at least getting something done, I know I know I have a year but I'm a little O.C.D. so I feel like I should get things under control now, and then 3 months before hopefully my panic attacks won't be as bad.

Anyways, I've pretty much decided on my colors, Purple (obviously), gray and champagne. I just love them, and they look classic. I know its not really summer but oh well, I'll have some lilac purple in there to make it all look summerish. After looking at everything with Roy last night I am not completely dreading this. At first I was like ughhh.. I'm gonna have to plan this for a million people and there is so much to do and so many details and I just wasn't so excited. But now I can hardly wait! I have 3 things that I want to be perfect and that is 1. My photography, that is my number one important thing, I just want nice pictures! 2. The venue, I've been to parties here and it is amazing, I love it its gorgeous, resonably priced and has everything I want. 3. My dress, I want my dress to make me look so faboulous. To just fit perfect and highlight my awesome features and cover the not so awesome ones. I just want to look and feel awesome in it.

Roy was showing me last night all her bridal pictures last night and the ones she did with Derrick before the wedding and they are fantastic! Honesly I think Chandler and I will do pictures before we get married just so I know I have awesome pictures just in case something happens on our wedding day that I can't control, like it rains, or it takes SO MUCH TIME! So we might just do it before, so I can pick a nice location and have awesome pictures to display at our reception. I know some people are all about not seeing the dress til the day but I don't mind either way. To each her own.

Also, I picked my bridesmaid dresses, they are purple haha duh. And we're thinking of tying a gray sash around them but I'd have to see it so I'm not sure. They are indeed strapless but I could add sleeves really easy, or I could just leave them, they are gorgeous either way, and since all of my bridesmaids (Jill, Roy, Taylor and Jade) are stick figures I know they'll look great no matter what plus, they go to the knee! So its not like a scandalous dress. I just love these dresses and how perfect is that color. I realise that I wasn't very specific when I said purple, I mean eggplant, the beautiful dark purple that looks good on EVERYONE! That is what my bridesmaids will be wearing and I'm so excited I could scream.

Part of me is so sad that this is forever away but it will make my planning so much better! I know there are still things I will forget about until the day before and I'll probably still freak out but I'm happy we have a long time and we can take things at our pace. This is going to be ahmazing! I really am so excited.

Okay so I don't know if a lot of people know about these gorgeous little beauties but I didn't until amazing Roy showed me them. They could not be more PERFECT! I never thught about lilies until I saw this, and I've always loved them but this color is just amazing. Mine will be the dark purple, with the stems wrapped in maybe gray? I dunno but they'll be wrapped the whole length instead of just part way like these ones are but I couldn't get a better picture. How gorgeous are those?! My bridesmaids will have the ones that are white with purple centers so they still match, and they are fantastic too! I just can't get over how much I love love love these flowers. Freak good thing I have Roy or I never would have know about them. She is a genius I tell you.

Well, thats pretty much what I have right now exept for the bridal party, I have mine Jill- sister, Roy- bestie, Taylor- Chandler's step-sister, Jade- Chandler's sister. He doesn't have his yet cuz he's not a psycho and plans all this stuff years in advance. I'm really pretty excited for all this if you can't tell but I'm allowed!

Update

So, with getting engaged everything is a little overwhelming. We wont be getting married until next summer because Chandler won't be finished with school until then and my grandparents and other family wouldn't be able to come over unless it was summer. I'm thinking July but haven't planned a single thing so I'm not sure. I do know that I want this to be an awesome party, and to have everyone we're close to there. A lot of people are like offended that we're not getting married this summer because its the "Utah" thing to do. I'm not knocking on other people but its just not for me, I've never planned on only being engaged for 2 months, for me its always been about a year. Plus, its my wedding so I get to choose. I just want to say now that if I didn't tell you personally it was in no way to offend you, I just have a lot of family and a lot going on so I can't remember all the people that I'm supposed to tell so don't be mad if you found out in a text or on Facebook, I still love you.

I have to admit it is kindof crazy being the center of attention though, Chandler and I work in the same place so EVERYONE knows us and how long we have been dating, not to mention almost every single person that works here knew that it was gonna happen on Tuesday, I am so shocked that no one told me, especially since I work at a car dealership and there are no secrets at car dealerships. I got to work on Wednesday and everyone wanted to see the ring and hear all the details, I loved telling them but I was almost embarrassed that I had to keep telling it over and over. However, I had absolutely NO problem showing off my ring :) The picture posted shows it with the matching wedding bands, which obviously I don't have yet since we aren't married, yet. It honestly is the most perfect ring that I have ever seen for me. I love it, I love the princess cut diamond and I love that it has lots of little ones so it looks really sparkly. It is really just so gorgeous, I can't stop staring at it to get anything done.

Anyways tomorrow is Rugby National finals, I almost forgot about them with all thats gone on this week, but I'm really glad that they're coming up. I think this is our year and BYU is gonna walk away with another National Title. Sariah and Weston and Brennon and Bailey and their families are coming up for the game so that should be great I'm excited to see everyone, then its Braden's farewell on Sunday so we'll be going to Manti for that, he leaves June 1st for California, and Sariah and Weston get married on the 4th! How sad is that?! 3 days before?! I would be so mad, but if he doesn't leave then he'll have to wait another 6 weeks before he can go again. Its kindof depressing. He'll be a good missionary though so that will be nice, I'm excited for him but its still pretty sad.

Anyways, not much else is new, other than I really should pick a date and start planning our wedding, there is just so much to do I don't really want to face it. I know I'll have to eventually but I still have to figure out when a good time for everyone to come over is so I definitely have some phone calls to make, anyways I better run.

Engaged!

Okay, everyone wants details I'll start at the begining. The first day I ever saw my ring was March 8th at Fred Meyer, we were walking around the mall with Jilly and saw this for the most amazing price ever. I could hardly believe it, it was everything I wanted (so no, my ring was not a surprise but I am very picky and didn't want Chandler to buy something I wasn't sure about so I told him to get that one or one similar). So we talked to the sales lady, I tried it on and it was awesome. Plus Julie (sales lady) was absolutely awesome, didn't push anything and just knew we were there to look. Little did I know Chandler talked to her like the next day and bought the ring right before Easter. I have absolutely nothing but fantastic things to say about Fred Meyer, they had great rings and great prices.

After I saw my ring we went to dinner with Derrick, Roy and probably McDowell and I told Roy how awesome it was. She went and saw it the next day because we're girls and thats what we do. She texted me to let me know she saw it and loved it. We talked a lot about Chandler and I finally getting engaged and how I wanted him to just do it. I mean we have been dating for almost 2 YEARS! And we live in Utah! Who has ever heard of such a thing (besides Derrick and Roy because they dated even LONGER). Roy told me to be patient and just stop thinking about it and then one day it will happen when you least expect it. Ding ding ding.

Anyways, I'll move on. Yesterday also happens to be Chandler's 21st Birthday so I definitely wasn't expecting a proposal, not even close. So I texted Roy and Travis on Tuesday morning and asked if they wanted to come to Texas Roadhouse for Birthday dinner, of coarse since Texas Roadhouse is AMAZING they wanted to! So I told Chandler and he said he might rather go to the Pi (this will make sense later) but then texted me about 2 hours later and said TRH. So I went home after work and got ready and Chandler started giving clues that I now don't know how the heck I missed but whatever Clue numero uno: He told me to grab my camera, but I just thought oh its his birthday, he wants pictures. So I put in my purse and continued to get ready, I was picking out my jewlery and decided to wear one of my promise rings, however my promise rings are both gold, and I was wearing a grey shirt with silver sequins, please tell me you see my dillema. So I decided to wear an awesome blue ring and I put in on my left ring finger, then switched to my right, I kept switching lets leave it there. Even in the car, I switched a million times, I ended up just taking it off becasuse I couldn't decide. So onto clue numero dos: He took FOREVER getting his "jacket" out of the car, I was already inside cuz it was raining, but he walked in with Derrick and Trav so I just kinda figured they had been talking outside. Then we were waiting for everyone to get there and here comes clue number 3, I tried to put my hands in his pockets and he wouldn't let me. I always try to tickle him tho so I figured he was just blocking. So we sit down for dinner and I just kinda felt like everyone knew something I didn't, like I was missing out on some key info. Yeah I really was. So I kept catching Roy look at Chandler like they were in on something but I couldn't figure out what so I let it go. Well, I told the waitress that it was Chandler's 21st birthday so we needed to get the sadle out here because he made me ride it so it was his turn. So he rode the sadle, they did the whole "Yee-hawww" thing and then he asked me to get his mom's camera out of his left pocket. So I reached in and pulled out my ring box. I just looked up at everyone and thought "What the hell is happening here?" Then I looked at him and said "This isn't a camera." Yes, that is what I said to my fiance, no oh my gosh are you serious, or I love you or even yes. No. I said "This isn't a camera." DUH! Hahah anyways, then I stood up, he asked me to marry him I said yes and it was all over. I couldn't even stop laughing. Everyone took a million pictures, my sister called (who missed it because some stupid girl wouldnt cover her shift! Who doesn't cover your shift when your SISTER is getting engaged?!) I'm so happy Chandler did it with our closest friends there, and that its on video and I can watch it every single day. I'm so happy he picked this ring and me to spend forever with.

McDowell showed up at the end which is so tyical McDowell but I'm happy he came, I'm happy Grayson, Roy, Derrick and McDowell got to share this with us, I couldn't pick better people to be friends with. I wanna say a BIG thanks to Clayton Taylor who set us up in the first place!---- OH! I almost forgot, the Pi, okay so we were gonna go to the Pi and then go to Rice Eccles and mess around playing catch and such on the field and then Chandler was gonna have it show up on the jumbo tron but seeing as they are setting up for U2 and for those of you that don't live in Utah it has rained 2 days straight and the field is a puddle he took me to my favorite restraunt with some of my favorite people.

It was absolutely perfect, there were no cheesy things, yeah it was in a Texas Road House, it wasn't the most romantic thing ever, but we aren't romatic people really, we are social, have the same group of friends that we do everything with, that know everything about us, and that I am so happy were there with us. I am so excited for this I can hardly breathe, Love you babe. Forever and ever.